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The “S” Word

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You’re new at this aren’t you I can already tell You do it so grudgingly Yet you do it so well You embrace it Feeling it deep within yourself But then you’re apologetic Retreating into yourself   You don’t do it often You shy away from it too You try not to do it Saying ‘it’s just not "you"’ But you have to do it first You have to do it too You can’t always wait For others to do it to you   It’s impossible to do it too much Go crazy, let loose It’s not about anyone else You are doing it for you!   You look so uncomfortable When others do it to you But then I...

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Relationship Status: It’s Complicated

Sometimes we complicate our own relationships before they have even begun. Sometimes we complicate our lives after the relationships have ended. Had a water cooler conversation with a friend and colleague yesterday about how we tend to predict the outcome from the first encounter. We deduced that this is wrong. So is panicking in the early stages and worrying about heartbreak, incompatibility, etc. before it arrives. Not every time high fences and higher defenses, sometimes we should just open ourselves up the possibility of what might be. Let things evolve organically. As some of us can...

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Date a Boy Who Is Not Afraid to Fail

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Date a boy who is not afraid to fail because you know that he will be resilient. As the definition implies he will be ‘able to withstand or recover quickly from difficult conditions.’ He will be able to ‘spring back into shape after being bent, stretched, or compressed.' Life has a way of bending, stretching and compressing us, so if you’re thinking of dating someone you might want to date a boy who is not afraid to fail. If you date a boy who is not afraid to fail you will have the assurance that when he...

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Affairs of the Heart

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  Sometimes it is forbidden You are not allowed to touch You are not allowed to taste You are not allowed to say Sometimes it is forbidden You are not allowed to hope You are not allowed to dream You are not allowed to ‘feen’ Sometimes you find love In a place with no space And you must rely on grace Or choose to suffocate Sometimes the person who you see as your 'other half' Is already whole And it does not matter how tightly your goals – align How your minds seem to – intertwine How you suddenly feel – defined Why? Because space and time betrayed you With the passage of time Probably at...

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